Why Happiness?

People usually love to be impressed, for good, for bad, but surprised at the end. Like an undesired feeling or an implicit wish it is part of human nature. Always looking for the most spectacular, for the greatness, to know the extreme instead of average interesting stuff. Press, knows this as well as marketers experts, designers, publicity managers, art creators for products, actors and even writers like me. I do not want to lie, not now, not ever, just sometimes, justified by the simplicity of letting you to see the floating truth.

History tells that suddenly, he could not walk anymore such as repenting unbreathing. One more step, one more movement, not possible to be up continuing so the end option was sitting down and the proximate chair. So he started laughing enormously, just mimics, simple acting, Surprise!!! He screamed out. Everybody distorted, just saw the funny part. As consequence people mentioning the history somewhere else as a mode of joke. He created the conjuncture, people replicated. It was a sharp point at the normal path but amplified by the surprise effect. Nothing ever happened, it was looking to highlight. Persons commenced loving him cause this man was the always surrounding clown. Surprisingly, He did not appear such a figure when making his tasks as any other person (by the way, this guy also worked, like you and me, so clownness does not mean not wanting money, on the contrary).

Impression can guide you through the goal of happiness or put you at the illusion of comfortability. Frequently, it does not care which is the stage due to is more convenient to feeling than describing. “I learn more dancing than seeing people dancing”. As a matter of settling the greatest desired state, surprising people becomes certainly one of the best options. Search out what someone likes for and expose her/him to that thing. They will appreciate it and a happy moment will be sorted out among all the issues that person face. Is a gift based on inducing a positive emotion more than the physical representation of whatever you put in front. That is why “facts are increasingly better than intentions”. It does not care what do we expect if nothing is done for approaching the place we want to be on, and we want our counterpart to feel on.

On us is the task of making happiness the objective or a way of living. It means an isolated temporal point or a flat/temporal condition defining our daily walking. It is about choosing, just as mentioned in a previous lecture, when it was our decision stopping someone from investing energy talking a boring thing for us, that way permitting both parts to be better quiet that awkward. The man selfcathegorized as clown certainly, is required at the context you less imagine, such as having a kind of this type everywhere, and how useful they become transmitting the changing point to people afraid of breaking the model.

Unconsciously he addressed them into a self evaluation that rescued them from the unhappy monotony, the silent routine. “Being happy, he became his surroundings happier”, he did not want to cause it, he was just himself. As a choice already taken people start minding, if I just cross the street and walk on other side (attention, not referred to the dark side, not starwars here), see the shop, eat a piece of bread and talk to the beautiful girl sit at the table.

Many options are just opened partially, and just a few ones, totally. But in general, partial aperture becomes more valuable, challenging and fulfilling that passing in to a door opened to everyone. Not establishing selection criteria to act, and to pursue our objectives is introducing an ambiguous perspective on the aims that feature your future. Defining likes, choosing well, deciding fast, selftrusting and breaking paradigms is what is going to push us into happiness self-fed and constant definition of the ego. “Break your own routine and be more in the middle of the same environment”.