Is that a lie?

I could lie to you and perhaps sometimes I do, but this is not my style. These were the words that unexpectedly said a guy to his girlfriend while she was preparing all the stuff to wash the clothe, as usually done all Mondays morning. He was thinking in how to make her happy; she was thinking in finishing that task the fastest possible. Obviously surprised, she turned the head seeing him with a non sense face, like, are you walking away from the reality or want to make me mad so early?. This guy was telling a lie when telling her he lied, and beyond creating a circle of negative discussion, he just wanted to catch her attention, for a second, for a minute, but completely focused on him.

This situation is very common nowadays, not just at the field of couples but at familiar level, group of friends, working groups and other association of persons possibly done in the world. Communication is not constrained simply to talk but to completely get the message of the individual that makes the sonic effort, so emisor and receiver are connected and the point is assumed understood. It protrudes that the topic could be important, but if not, ask the conversational counterpart to shut up (kindly or directly, however doing something on avoiding him/her to make a non recognized and useless action). This deed, despite being intolerant is sometimes needed due to time and brain energy is gold. Let´s be clear: “Nobody find pieces of gold thrown out when walking on the street”.

Mostly, respecting people is about telling the truth. It is related to worth the emisors effort of communicating their deeply thoughts or simply the external ones, stopping this way a weird further misunderstanding. Receivers therefore, aware of the whole concept of honesty, start getting the message because they chose to. For goodness or not, is our choice to do it, so standing there is being sure of the decision. Everybody must get the consequences of their actions and more importantly if you assume to effect a paper in your life, there is no more sensate option that doing the best possible. This by the way is the secret of successful people: “Stop awkward situations and keep going the others for which you care for”.

Administrating the time and energy, investing effectively the calories got at the breakfast, this and some other gains, are the ones coming on us for being clear in life. “Simple things are always the solution”. The guy at the first paragraph, surely did not want the girlfriend to continue her routinary life, he wanted them to stop configuring the self-destruction formula of the couple, and aware of it, took perhaps and straight aggressive tool. Because, and smart man never says the word “Lie” to his partner, not at even the simplest context. So the consequence was the girl asking for answers. Simply: a kiss, a deep felt one. He wanted a motif, unbalance the situation, create the juncture to proceed with the solution. He expected the girl to worth that new brightness in that new day, and certainly she got it.

In general being predictable, following a step by step daily behavior, non taking risks, and being unable to limit the awkwardness, are for sure the ingredients to break up a couple. “Women love adventures but not tell it, men say it but not do it looking to avoid risks”. The flame of love is undescriptable, undefined, placeless, but so precise to fulfill your life at any moment. I mean, hard emotions in order to put the spicy touch are required and, men almost all the time –activated by the testosterone- proceed to the “indecent” proposal. The world is like that, and always will be.

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